Bisola Aiyeola also stated that while she doesn’t expect her friends to inherit her fights, she believes it is unfair for them to be friends with or date her ex-partner.
By Kehinde Okeowo
Nollywood actress and reality TV star Bisola Aiyeola has revealed that unchecked loyalty once made her take sides and get involved in conflicts she had no business dabbling in.
The 40-year-old thespian made this known recently while appearing as a guest on the latest episode of the Dear Ife podcast.
According to the single mother of one, she used to “inherit” her loved ones, friends, and colleagues’ fights, even without hearing from the other party.
She, however, added that she stopped doing so after someone whose fight she took over made her an “outsider” after reconciling with the person they were beefing.
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She went on to note that while she doesn’t expect her friends to “inherit” her “beefs”, she thinks it is unfair for them to be friends with or date her ex.
Speaking during the interview, Bisola Aiyeola said , “I have been in a situation where I have taken on fights that are not mine. I do inherit my friends’ beef to an extent. I have done that before. Not just for people who are my best friends but also for acquaintances and colleagues. I did it even without hearing from the other person.
“But I have also been in a situation where I inherited someone’s fight and then they eventually settled, and I became the outsider. So, I told myself it’s not everybody’s fight and beef that I should inherit.
“I don’t expect people to inherit my beef, but if I have an ex-fiancé and my best friend decides to bond with him, we are not friends. I have cut ties with men who were dating and quarrelling with my best friends.”
