By Eberechi Obinagwam
Men have always argued that they are the ones that died for this love we are celebrating called Valentine and yet women are not appreciating them. They still want them to be the ones spending on what they paid a price for.
In fact, a young man, Victor whose surname is withheld said women supposed to be the ones pampering men. “Are they not supposed to be the ones buying us gifts and taking us out after dying for what they are celebrating today? They still want us to keep paying. Nawao!”
According to the myth of Valentine, if the priest didn’t die for love, there wouldn’t have been anything called Val’s day. But then, if the woman did not give her heart to love, there wouldn’t be anything worth dying for.
Again, the story has been that women are the weaker vessels. They have always been tender and wanted to be pampered and treated with care.
Chuks Ekebuisi said “if you start this war of a woman to crush on you. To take that responsibility of being the ones to take you out and pamper you this season, you will never win this war.”
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Anyway, Valentine is a season of showing love to one another. And it should not matter who died for the love. It’s the season of love. Show love, spread love, breathe love and embrace love.
Share gifts to your spouse, friends and loved ones no matter how little.
In case you are looking for Valentine gifts to buy, these will make sense for you this season
For your man: wristwatch, bracelets, perfume, wine, SunShade, Belt, After shave gel, cufflinks Valentines themed card.
One may ask what card is doing in a man’s gift? What does he need it for? Yes, some men love this romantic kind of life but they just pretend to be very serious and not to have time for all of that. But I tell you deep inside them that they wish their spouse could appreciate them a little, be romantic and crush on them small.
On this Val’s day, try getting or adding a themed card with sweet romantic words on it which could be; you are the most handsome man in the universe. You are my strength. My world. I will keep loving and being loyal to you. I appreciate your love and care and I love you so much.
I tell you that if you scribble those romantic words, it will melt their hearts and they will show more love than you have ever experienced.
You can as well go extra mile to make that day more honey by customizing some of the items listed here.
You can add a torch light. Most people do not know the power of torch light to men. Its serves as a defense. Men are always at the defensive side especially at night. They are always looking out for their woman’s protection.
For your woman, of course, a woman wants to be treated special and be gifted by someone that loves her so dearly.
For people like me, I have always loved gifts especially when it’s well wrapped and it’s full of fancies. Like you got my heart. I will show everyone close to me that hey, my new boyfriend bought me this and I know I have those lovely women like me around.
So here are some gifts that will make sense for women this Val.
Jewelry, set (necklace), Perfume, chocolate, Valentines themed card – (make sure you have a beautiful note written on it), wristwatch, purse, fancy mug, sunshade, bag, wine, ear ring, steel, body spray.
And hey, gifts in this season are not meant for spouses alone. You can gift your mom and dad, family and friends.