By Jeph Ajobaju, Chief Copy Editor
Women are standing up to rail against “the boys will be boys” attitude even grown men exhibit in traditional forms of abuse of women in catcalls, unwanted attention, body shaming, sexualisation, and have transferred to online space without checks.
Some men abuse women and go on to kill them.
Men caught in the act physically can be identified and prosecuted. But online platforms hide the identity of women abusers and also instantly spread their hate worldwide for other misogynists to pick up and replicate with impunity.
Abuse of women by women has proliferated in the digital age.
Nearly all women, prominent and unknown, in every class and in every race – regardless of social status – everywhere on earth have experienced some form of abuse from men, verbal or physical. Or both.
Hillary Clinton narrated her experience during her run for United States President in 2016. Michelle Obama has documented her own, spiced with racism as an extra dose of denigration.
Donald Trump did not hide his misogyny in his White House run and after he became US President, the most powerful office in the world. He called women “pigs” during his 2016 campaign. He called Kamala Harris a “monster” in 2020.
Women say they are now fed up with it all and have taken the case to the United Nations and tech platforms demanding something be done to stop male abuse before more women are killed literally or psychologically.
The BBC reports that more than 200 high-profile women have signed an open letter asking for concrete action to tackle abuse on social media platforms.
The letter – signed by former Australian prime minister Julia Gillard, former American tennis player Billie Jean King and British actresses Thandiwe Newton Emma Watson, et al – has been published at the UN Generation Equality Forum.
“As prime minister of Australia, like other women in the public domain, I regularly received highly gendered and ugly social media, including the circulation of pornographic cartoons,” Gillard told the BBC.
She added that it made her “angry and frustrated that women still face this kind of abuse”.
Call for internet content moderation
The letter was addressed to the chief executives of Facebook, Google, TikTok and Twitter, and asked them to “urgently prioritise the safety of women on your platforms”.
The social media chiefs have said they will commit to improving systems on reporting abuse, and filter what users see and who can interact with them online.
However, some campaigners have expressed concerns that these commitments do not go far enough.
“These abstract statements offer tech companies a good PR opportunity, but these aren’t real commitments,” says Lucina Di Meco, co-founder of #ShePersisted Global, which tackles online attacks against women.
“They aren’t specifically offering to look at content moderation or algorithmic preferences that will reward bad behaviour. So far, we are still putting the burden on women.”
The letter reads: “The internet is the town square of the 21st Century. It is where debate takes place, communities are built, products are sold and reputations are made.
“But the scale of online abuse means that, for too many women, these digital town squares are unsafe. This is a threat to progress on gender equality.”
Barrier to gender equality
The letter also pointed to a 2020 study of more than 4,000 adult women by The Economist Intelligence Unit, which found that 38 per cent of them in 51 countries have had direct experience of online intimidation.
And it also emphasises online abuse is worse for marginalised groups and Black, Asian, Latin American and mixed-race women.
“It is really important that we recognise that abuse and harassment against women on social media platforms is widespread, and that it is one of the biggest barriers to gender equality,” said Azmina Dhrodia, senior policy manager at the World Wide Web Foundation, who organised the letter.
Azerbaijani journalist Arzu Geybulla, who took part in the consultations, told the BBC that constant online harassment made her want to leave her career.
She said she wondered if tech platforms would “ever take trolling and harassment seriously”.
Reaction of tech firms
TikTok already has a “prompt” that asks people to reconsider the impact of their words before posting a comment which may contain inappropriate or other key words, and Twitter has features to limit the posts people see.
“While we have made recent strides in giving people greater control to manage their safety, we know there is still much work to be done,” said Vijaya Gadde, Twitter’s head of legal, public policy, and trust and safety.
“We are committed to addressing this issue and working with industry partners and civil society to build a safer internet.”
On June 30, Facebook also announced a Women’s Safety Hub to centralise its existing resources to deal with online abuse, and a dedicated global Women’s Safety Advisory board which they say will monitor and make recommendations on safety.
The commitments are part of a series of announcements made at the UN’s Generation Equality Forum in Paris.
The World Wide Web Foundation says it will track the tech companies against the commitments they’ve made, and report annually on their progress.