Kaffy also stated that she was troubled and deeply hurt but started healing after she stopped sleeping with her ex-husband
By Kehinde Okeowo
Nigerian dancer, and dance instructor, Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, has claimed her ex-husband, Joseph Ameh, was sleeping with her friends while they were married.
She made the revelation in a recent chat with media personality, Chude Jideonwo, where she also revealed he made her develop a phobia for calm people.
Kaffi said, “I thought at the beginning that I had found someone to completely make me happy. But, that was selfish thinking. No human being should be one’s source of happiness.
“When you see him (her husband), you will think he can’t even hurt a fly because he is always calm. He has actually made me to be afraid of calm people. I held him in high regard until I had to ask him why he was treating me the way he was. I asked him what he had against me that was making him sleep around, even with my best friends. I knew that if I really loved him, I had to let him go.”
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The 41-year-old fitness coach also said she thought he was only sleeping with random women, but later found out he was also sleeping with her close friends.
She added, “If I had known I won’t have jumped into that fire, I thought he was just sleeping with strangers but I found out he was sleeping with my best friends, people I knew….”
The choreographer also stated that she was troubled and deeply hurt but started healing after she stopped sleeping with her ex-husband.
“I started getting more healing when I stopped sleeping with him. I was celibate in my marriage for three years before getting a divorce.” she narrated.
Kaffy concluded by saying witnessing domestic violence between her parents while growing up drove her into the arms of her ex-husband, whom she felt would bring the desired succour.