A man is not “responsible for you” until he marries you, his generosity shouldn’t make you feel entitled to his cash, she says
By Jeph Ajobaju, Chief Copy Editor
BBNaija alum now a reality star Doyin (full name Doyinsola Anuoluwapo David) has chastised women who go after money, advising them not to feel entitled to a man’s cash until get married.
Whatever a man does for his partner in a relationship outside of marriage is an act of generosity, Doyin stressed in response to a female fan who solicited her advice after her boyfriend dumped her for calling him “stingy”.
“I don’t think he’s stingy because he doesn’t randomly give you money. If you have a man that gives to you when you ask then you’re lucky to have a responsible man but he doesn’t owe you random money just because you are his girlfriend,” Doyin wrote on Instagram.
“Until a man has married you, he is not obligated to be responsible for you … whatever he does is out of the generosity of his heart but you should never feel entitled to his money.
“Don’t let the internet deceive you, it’s nice to have a man that is intentional with his generosity but it’s not your birth right. There is nothing genetically programmed in a man that makes it easier for him to make money than a woman.
“It’s not easy to make money, so no one wants to keep spending ‘randomly’. If you need random money, please get a job.”
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